We all know the saying, “Parenting doesn’t come with a handbook.” That couldn’t be more true when you’re raising a child with disabilities. While parenting any child is a journey into the unknown, parenting a special needs child can be especially bewildering.
When challenges inevitably arise, it’s wise to consult with professionals and to seek support from friends and family. But there are also a great many books that provide advice and helpful hints for parents of children with special needs.
Here are some recommendations of new books that may offer valuable guidance for your parenting journey.
1. “Everything No One Tells You About Parenting a Disabled Child: Your Guide to Essential Systems, Services and Supports” (Hatchett Go, March 2024)
By Kelley Coleman
Written by a parent with 10 years of experience caring for a child with multiple disabilities, “Everything No One Tells You…” provides critical information in a style that’s accessible, humorous and warm. Perhaps that’s why it has a five-star rating on Amazon!
2. “Normal Schmormal: My Occasionally Helpful Guide to Parenting Kids with Special Needs (HarperCollins, July 2023)
By Ashley Blaker
How can you go wrong with a title like this? Part memoir, part self-help book, “Normal Schmormal” offers an honest view of what it’s like to parent kids with special education needs. Blaker should know. He’s the father of six kids, three of whom have SENs.
3. “Becoming Brave Together: Heroic, Extraordinary Caregiving Stories from Mothers Hidden in Plain Sight” (The Unknown Authors Club, May 2024)
By Jessica Patay and 10 contributing authors
This hot-of-the-press anthology includes essays by mothers who are deep in the trenches of raising children with a variety of disabilities. As author and reviewer Jennifer Pastiloff writes “Becoming Brave… is a gorgeous compilation of what it means to be human; how much we need one another, and a testament to the tenacity of not just the human spirit, but of love itself.
4. “Parenting at the Intersections: Raising Neurodivergent Children of Color” (Chicago Review Press, Jan. 2024)
By Jaya Ramesh and Priya Saaral
Parents raising neurodiverse children of color face unique challenges. This informative and important reference offers hope for parents with children who face discrimination on dual fronts.
5. “How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities” (May 2024)
By Kristin Faith Evans and Todd Evans Ph.D.
Parenting children with special needs places a great deal of stress on a marriage. This book provides practical evidence-based ways to protect and strengthen your marital relationship.
6. “Parenting Autistic Children: Navigating the Spectrum (Independently Published, April 2024)
By Michael Stevens
In this new guide, Stevens offers practical and effective tools for all aspects of parenting a child on the autism spectrum including “managing melt-downs, navigating the healthcare and education systems, and creating a sensory haven.”
7. “Learning the Language of Autism: An A to Z Guide for Parents and Teachers” (Amazingly Uplifted, July 2024)
By Veronica Crafton
This important new reference illuminates concepts, jargon and definitions about autism, making it easier for parents and teachers to collaborate on the educational needs of their children and students.